ALZHEIMER’S, YOUR PARENTS AND THEIR HEALTH
“This retired Pastor in my group…” Dad begins, with tears in his eyes. “This Pastor says that over his career, he advised hundreds of people how to handle loved ones with memory loss. Now he’s caring for his wife who has Alzheimer’s. And he says that now, for the first time, now that it is his wife, he really sees it. He really sees what Alzheimer’s asks from a Caregiver.”
Six months before, Dad still was yet to be a “Support Group” kind of person. But today, stories from his fellow Caregivers are the fuel that keep him going.
I find that I am so grateful Dad has connected with others – people whom he respects and who are walking the Alzheimer’s Caregiver journey alongside him.
I smile with my realization: try as I might, there is only so much that I can be and do for my Dad.
Does your Alzheimer’s Caregiver have someone who truly understands their daily life? Encourage them to ask their friends if they know of an Alzheimer’s Support Group nearby. Make some inquiries into someone who can stay with your Alzheimer’s Loved One during the meeting so that your Caregiver can attend focused and carefree. Consider if there is a way that you can help them attend even just once. After all, one meeting may be enough to convince your Alzheimer’s Caregiver to attend regularly. This could be a game changer for everyone involved.