YOUR PARENTS, THEIR ALZHEIMER’S AND THEIR FRIENDS
“We had a great day yesterday.”
I can literally hear Dad’s smile over the telephone.
“Kay and Jo came over,” he continued. “Kay visited with Mom. They laughed and laughed.”
“And Jo?” I ask.
“Jo and I worked in my office, getting the prescription refills figured out.”
This last comment pokes at my curiosity. “What was up with the refills?”
“Oh nothing,” he replies. “I just have so many bottles of some of these medicines in the closet. I mean, why on earth would I need three months of Omeprazole at one time? That’s nuts. Anyway, Jo talked to the pharmacy and helped me get it all straightened out.”
“Well,” I begin, intending to explain (yet again) the 90-day refill policy used by today’s mail-order pharmacies. Then I stop myself for a breath. I remind myself that Dad sounds happy. Relieved. Calm.
I change directions. “So is there anything else I can do to help with that?”
“Nope, we’re all set now. Oh, and best of all, they brought lunch and even left me with some dinners for the week!”
Mom and Dad’s friends are both nurses. They have a lot of history with my parents, and a lot of experience helping people traverse the Alzheimer’s journey. This was another chance for me to watch and learn from their expertise. To witness how two strategic visitors at one time can “divide and conquer,” providing an opportunity for the Alzheimer’s Caregiver to get something else important done.
Have you tried the “two-on-two match-up” approach to create some uniquely powerful support for both your Alzheimer’s Loved One and the Alzheimer’s Caregiver? If not, who in their life (or yours) could you recruit onto this all-important special team?